A space where men and women meet honestly, beyond the roles we play, the expectations we carry, and the distance we've learned to keep.
The Manosphere. Rising femicide. Men in crisis, women exhausted. Dating feeling transactional, connection feeling risky. We know something isn't working, but most conversations about it just create more distance.
You sense that something in how men and women relate isn't working, and you want to be part of changing it, starting with yourself.
You're in a relationship and want deeper, more conscious contact with your partner, beyond the roles you've both slipped into.
You're single and tired of dating feeling like performance, you want more clarity about what you actually want and how you actually show up.
You're curious about your own conditioning, the unconscious ideas, projections, and expectations you carry toward the other gender.
Each session builds on the last, from your own inner landscape outward to real encounter with the other.
I'm a certified Embodiment Coach (since 2022) and Authentic Relating facilitator. Since 2022 I've run over 100 workshops across six countries, working with multicultural groups and a wide range of perspectives, backgrounds, and worldviews.
I've been creating spaces where people take off the mask for years, through the Unmasked workshops, the Connect workshop, and my newsletter about real connection.
This training came from a question I couldn't stop sitting with: why does something feel so broken between men and women right now, and what would it look like to actually address that, together, in a room?
I use Authentic Relating practices because they cut through performance and get to something real. I'm a trained facilitator, and I'm also someone who finds this hard, which is exactly why I'm doing this.
This is an experimental space. I'll be honest about what I know and what I'm still learning.
"Seeing how insecurity works in other people, exposed thanks to the atmosphere Silja created, allowed me to see my own dynamic. How I sabotage good things by believing in my insecurities. This was the biggest takeaway for me."
"I came with curiosity and no idea what to expect. The event genuinely shifted something in me. Authentic feedback from participants of the other gender helped me question negative beliefs about myself. I didn't expect so much to happen in under 2 hours."
"Fabulous event for anyone looking to get beyond small talk and actually connect on a very human level. Silja creates a safe environment and keeps the flow going. This is not a lecture, it's hands-on and participatory. Highly recommended."
"Her professionalism, experience and sensitivity as a facilitator were only matched by her humour. She expertly navigated a huge group of strangers while staying fully at ease in her own authenticity."
Sessions 1 + 4 run 2 hours. Sessions 2 + 3 run 2.5 hours. Each includes a 10-minute break. All sessions on Zoom.
If you've been to one of my evening workshops over the past years, this training is the natural continuation and deepening of what we started there.
For returning participants and newcomers alike.
Fill in the form below. You'll receive all details, dates, the Zoom link, and what to expect, by email. A few questions help me understand who's coming and what you're bringing.
